Being Selfless...truly selfless

December 12, 2007

Hi everyone! Welcome to my blog. For my first post, I wanted to share a truly wonderful story with you. Have some tissue ready. This will certainly tug at your heartstrings but WOW, an amazing and inspiring read.

In Brooklyn, New York, Chush is a school that caters to learning-disabled children. Some children remain in Chush for their entire school career, while others can be mainstreamed into conventional schools. At a Chush fund-raising dinner, the father of a Chush child delivered a speech that will never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he cried out, "Where is the perfection in my son Shay? Everything God does is done with perfection. But my child cannot understand things as other children do. My child cannot remember facts and figures as other children do. Where is God's perfection?" The audience was shocked by the question, pained by the father's anguish, and stilled by the piercing query. "I believe," the father answered, "that, when God brings a child like this into the world, the perfection that he seeks is in the way people react to this child." He then told the following story about his son Shay:

One afternoon Shay and his father walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they will let me play?" Shay's father knew that his son was not at all athletic and that most boys would not want him on their team. But he also understood that his son's being chosen to play would give him a comfortable sense of belonging. He approached one of the boys in the field and asked if Shay could play.
The boy looked around for guidance from his teammates. Getting none, he took matters into his own hands and said "We are losing by six runs, and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team, and we'll try to put him up to bat in the ninth inning."
Shay's father was ecstatic as Shay smiled broadly. Shay was told to put on a glove and go out to play short center field. In the bottom of the eighth inning Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the bottom of the ninth inning they scored again. Now they had two outs and the bases loaded with the potential winning run on base. Shay was the batter up. Would the team actually let Shay bat at this juncture and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that it was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, let alone hit with it. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher moved up a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay should at least be able to make contact.
The first pitch came, and Shay swung clumsily and missed. One of Shay's teammates came up to Shay, and together they held the bat and faced the pitcher, waiting for the next pitch. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly toward Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay and his teammate swung at the ball, and together they hit a slow ground ball to the pitcher. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could easily have thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out, and that would have ended the game. Instead, the pitcher took the ball and threw it on a high arc to right field, far beyond the first baseman's reach. Everyone started yelling, "Shay, run to first; run to first." Never in his life had Shay run to first. He scampered down the baseline wide-eyed and startled. By the time he reached first base, the right fielder had the ball. He could have thrown the ball to the second baseman, who would tag out Shay, who was still running. But the right fielder understood what the pitcher's intentions were, so he threw the ball high and far over the third baseman's head.
Everyone yelled, "Run to second; run to second." Shay ran towards second base as the runners ahead of him deliriously circled the bases toward home. As Shay reached second base, the opposing short stop ran to him, turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third." As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams ran behind him screaming, "Shay, run home!"
Shay ran home, stepped on home plate, and all eighteen boys lifted him on their shoulders and made him the hero because he had just hit a grand slam and won the game for his team.

"That day," said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "those eighteen boys reached the level of God's perfection."
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I love that story! A single act of selflessness is the greatest gift we can give someone and it has the power to transform lives. Imagine the impact of living a selfless life.

4 comments:

Corey = ) said...

Beautiful story Shelley = )

The part that gets me the most is when Shay's team mate comes up and helps him hold the bat... if you think about it in our lives how many times has God helped each one of us to hold our bat...

Amazing is His Love for Us in that while we were yet sinners... he died for us that we might have eternal life... in other words, he held the bat in our place...

Anonymous said...

What I love is how contagious it is to do something for someone else... If we could all lead the way like that...

Love your Blog Shelley...

Lori

Anonymous said...

Thank you for giving me your thoughts
they are as always, infectious and inspiring.

Donna said...

I am so glad you have started a blog Shelley. Thanks for sharing. I'm looking forward to reading.